Imagine earning $50 or more for an hour’s worth of work? It’s possible with blogging! While blogging is just my side hustle at this time to earn extra spending cash, the rates some of these sites pay can be lucrative if you consistently keep at it. Right now, I typically only write one blog a week. Sometimes, I put it on my own website and other times I pitch other websites. The overall process only takes 1-3 hours, depending on how in depth the blog is and how much research is required. And if I’m averaging about $100 for these blogs, that rate is excellent for minimum work doing something I enjoy. I signed up to receive weekly emails from Freedom With Writing. Each week, they break down websites that are accepting pitches that pay from guest bloggers! Here are 17 websites that I’ve had the most success and ease with earning extra cash blogging. Click on the title of the website to be taken to their How to Write for them page. #1 Pregnant Chicken Pregnant Chicken covers all things babies from pregnancy to childbirth or adoption and being a new parent. They are going to want to see a completed piece of 300 words or more first. Then, they’ll email if it is or isn’t a right fit for their website. In my experience, they typically respond within a week which is a fast turnaround. Rate: $100 #2 HubPages I stumbled upon Hubpages years ago. I would publish blogs at random and without much thought to getting paid. Eventually, I could link my PayPal account and configure their Ad Program and Amazon Program to my blog. For years, I made cents. But then, all of a sudden that money started compounding, and I would get paid $50, $75, $90 a month. The money isn’t consistent (But I also don’t blog on the site consistently), but it’s nice to get that surprise $50+ paycheck several months a year. Here’s how it works:
Rate: You can’t cash out until you reach $50 for a month. #3 MediumMedium works in the same vein as Hubpages. Join their Partnership Program once you meet the criteria and get paid monthly based on member reading time. I would repost a lot of my old blogs onto the site (They allow repurposing blogs), but didn’t have much luck besides literally like 10 cents a month. Then, I looked more into it and, just like Hubpages, I can submit a blog to one of their bigger sites which will help your blog get more views. I was accepted to Better Humans and have two blogs on that site which, as of now, are earning me around $10 a month. Not much, but it’s something. And it’s also something I can look into getting more serious about. Rate: Will vary based on views #4 PopSugarI’ll be honest. I’ve stopped blogging for PopSugar mainly because I thought the $50 for one post was too low, and I wasn’t hearing back from them as much. However, PopSugar is a big named site and blogging for them can lead to other opportunities. When I blogged for them, Elise Tate, influencer and wife of NFL star Golden Tate, and I connected. This led to some business opportunities, but it wasn’t that profitable, and promoting other people’s works wasn’t what I wanted to do. But after a while, for me money was more important than clout. LOL. However, here’s how I started making money… I sent them an article I wrote and after weeks (actually I think it might have been months), they emailed me back saying that they liked my article and invited me to join their Voices Community. Once in the community, I could pitch my own ideas, or I could accept pitches they suggested to me. They also sent out a monthly guide of what they wanted to see that month. Most of my pitches got accepted, and I enjoyed writing for them for the time-being. Rate: $50 5. Her View From HomeHer View From Home likes feel good stories about motherhood. A lot of my personal essays have been accepted to this site. You submit a finished piece to their website, and they get back to you pretty quickly if the piece is a right fit for their website. Once accepted, you have no more work to do. They handle the rest. I enjoy writing for them. Rate: Rates are based on views. I got to the $60 threshold once, but I’m pretty sure that was because my dad just clicked on the piece that many times. It’s hard to earn a lot of views because they put out a lot of pieces a day on their social media, so I feel as if your piece never gains a lot of traction unless you have a large social media following, you have parents who are willing to continuously click on it, or you join one of those Blogging Facebook groups where you can exchange favors.
6. OC87 Recovery DiariesThis website wants your personal essays on mental health recovery stories. To submit to them, send them an email with your full story in the body of the email. I shared with them a story of how I recovered from insomnia, and they really liked it. I went through two rounds of edits, and the final copy will be published in May. Rate: $150 7. A Fine ParentI’ve written five articles for this site, and I’ve thoroughly enjoyed working with their team. The submission process was easy. I shared with them my full essay, and they would respond back in a timely manner with their interest. After that I would go through 1-2 rounds of edit which were fairly simple. The editor would make suggestions, and I would approve. A Fine Parent accepts articles on parenting, especially positive strategies that work. I’ve written about building resilience, shy kids, greenlight strategies, and handling tantrums. Rate: $75 8. Lisa Tanner WritingLisa is looking for articles on Blogging, Freelance Business, Work/Life Balance, and Tips for Working from Home with Kids. She first wants to see your pitch and a workable outline. Once she accepts your article, you’ll share your full post in an editable Google Doc. I went through one round of edits before the post was published. Lisa was very easy to work with, and I enjoy her content. Rate: $50 9. MotherfigureMotherfigure is looking for stories on motherhood and your journey toward it. They seek pitches on pregnancy, childbirth, infertility, nursing, and postpartum. They want you to send a brief pitch first and then once accepted they will work with you to flesh out your article. Rate: $100 10. Chicken SoupI think writing for the Chicken Soup books is the easiest I’ve ever earned money. They aren’t looking for anything long (1200 words or less) and I barely had to do any edits. They have call outs throughout the year on various topics. I’ve written twice on the topics of “Me Time” and “Christmas.” Submit your story online to them, and then they’ll be in touch only if you’ve been accepted. Rate: $200 11. Answers For MeI wrote two articles for this website under their Corona Diaries series. They want to see the full story first before making their decision. I’m not sure if they are still taking stories for this series, but according to their website, it looks as if they might still be. Rate: $35 12. ChalkbeatChalkbeat is looking for first person narratives on education. They accept pitches from educators, advocates, parents, and students. They are seeking original stories on your own personal experience with the education system. They ask you to either send a pitch or draft. Rate: Not specified on the website, but I believe I got $100 13. Your Teen MagAccording to their website, Our Teen is a publication for parents of teenagers—middle school, high school, and up to the first year or two of college—and for professionals working with teenagers. Our mission is to be a trusted source—and a fun, informative read!—for readers who are seeking information about teenagers. They want to see a pitch first. I submitted two articles and went through about one round of edits. Nothing hard. Rate: The rate is not specified on their site, but I asked and got $75 for both articles. 14. Filter Free ParentingI’m not seeing their submission page on their website, but it doesn’t hurt to send them an email with an idea or draft. They accept a wide range of topics from Mom Life to Kids and Relationships. I wrote a humorous piece about kids activities that look glamorous on Instagram but aren’t in real life. Rate: I got paid $50 15. Yummy Mummy ClubThis parenting site especially loves parenting humor. They accept previously published and unpublished content, but only original essays are considered for payment. I wrote a piece about Quiet Quitting Instagram. Send pitches by email. Rate: Website doesn’t say how much you get paid, but I got $25 16. Get Me GiddyGet Me Giddy is the world’s largest sexual health platform. I’m in the midst of working with them right now, so I technically haven’t gotten paid yet. I am writing a piece on infertility. I had to pitch them first and then they sent back to me an agreement and the writer’s guidelines. Based on their writing guidelines, they want two interviews or quotes from expert sources. Have a pitch? Here’s the email information (Updated 11/27/22):
Rate: $350 |
Lauren Barrett is a multi-passionate mom working to help all parents become their best selves and build positive relationships with their kids through mindful parenting. She has a degree in deaf education and a Master’s in Reading Education. She is a high school teacher of the Deaf and hard-of-hearing by day, a cross country coach by the afternoon, a writer/author by her son's nap times, and a full time mom to an amazing toddler. Lauren is a 3x author of the Add One-A-Day 30 Day Challenge, children's book, Henry's Hiccups, and parenting guide Now What? Mindful Checklists for Life's Hard Parenting Moments, a blogger at Lauren Barrett Writes, and has been published on sites like A Fine Parent, Pregnant Chicken, Pop Sugar, Her View From Home, and Scary Mommy. She loves her faith, running, visiting MLB stadiums with her husband, chocolate, scrapbooking, pretending she would actually do well on the Amazing Race, re-watching The Office, listening to Bobby Bones, and helping out all moms. She lives in North Carolina with her husband, James, and son, Henry. Follow her on Instagram at @laurenbarrettwrites, and get her free guide on what to do during the middle of a tantrum. |
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Spring andliteracy! Two of my favorite things. Being a teacher and having my Master's in Reading Education, I sometimes go a little nuts with buying books or checking out books from the library for my son.
But with spring approaching and warmer weather in the forecast, I thought what better way to combine some of our favorite spring books, literacy activities, and the outdoors all into one neat, little spring package. We are all tired from being cooped up inside and on our computers, so let's get off our devices and outdoors with this ultimate spring literacy guide for toddlers and preschool aged children.
But with spring approaching and warmer weather in the forecast, I thought what better way to combine some of our favorite spring books, literacy activities, and the outdoors all into one neat, little spring package. We are all tired from being cooped up inside and on our computers, so let's get off our devices and outdoors with this ultimate spring literacy guide for toddlers and preschool aged children.
1. Become a Meteorologist With Usborne Weather Books
Spring brings a variety of weather from sunny, rainy, windy, and even snowy days depending on what part of the country you live in. What better way to talk about the different weather patterns your children see, then with Usborne's collection of weather books.
They have the Windy Day, Rainy Day, Sunny Day, and Snowy day. Read these books with your little ones and then spend the rest of the week having your child be a meteorologist and getting outside to track the weather. Use the premade template below or make one of your own.
They have the Windy Day, Rainy Day, Sunny Day, and Snowy day. Read these books with your little ones and then spend the rest of the week having your child be a meteorologist and getting outside to track the weather. Use the premade template below or make one of your own.
2. Go on an Alphabet Easter Egg Hunt with Llama Llama Easter Egg
With Easter being one of the premiere events of the spring, it is only fitting we take our kids on an Easter egg hunt, but instead of chocolates and candies inside the eggs (save those things for actual Easter), put magnetic letters inside of eggs.
First, read Llama Llama Easter Egg or any other of your favorite books that feature an Easter egg hunt. Then, take your magnetic letters and put them in plastic eggs. For preschool aged kids, hide the eggs around the yard. Your kids will have to hunt for the eggs to find the letters that spell their names or any other word (Spring, Easter, Jesus, etc). You can add in a time limit or have kids compete against one another for bonus fun.
For the younger toddlers, simply have them open the eggs with the letters in them. Your toddlers can try to match the magnetic letter to pre-drawn letters or identify the letter. Either way, your toddlers will delight in the element of surprise of opening egg after egg.
First, read Llama Llama Easter Egg or any other of your favorite books that feature an Easter egg hunt. Then, take your magnetic letters and put them in plastic eggs. For preschool aged kids, hide the eggs around the yard. Your kids will have to hunt for the eggs to find the letters that spell their names or any other word (Spring, Easter, Jesus, etc). You can add in a time limit or have kids compete against one another for bonus fun.
For the younger toddlers, simply have them open the eggs with the letters in them. Your toddlers can try to match the magnetic letter to pre-drawn letters or identify the letter. Either way, your toddlers will delight in the element of surprise of opening egg after egg.
3. Sign Language Scavenger Hunt with Sign Me Up
Spring is the time to try new activities. One of my favorite activities is sign language. I've already written a lot about the benefits of teaching sign language to your children as well as my favorite sign language resource, SignMeUp. So now, let's get outdoors and practice our sign language skills.
First, expose your children to sign language with SignMeUp or ASL Nook. Then go on a walk around the neighborhood trying to check off all the things you can you find on a premade list (see below). Once you find the object, have your little one sign the word. For repeated exposure to a word, make sure you are signing and saying the word yourself, having your kid sign and say the word, and showing them the picture, written, and real life form of the word. Multiple connections for the win.
For an added level of competitiveness, split off into teams. Some kids can go with Mommy and some kids can go with Daddy. Whoever can find the most words on the list wins!
First, expose your children to sign language with SignMeUp or ASL Nook. Then go on a walk around the neighborhood trying to check off all the things you can you find on a premade list (see below). Once you find the object, have your little one sign the word. For repeated exposure to a word, make sure you are signing and saying the word yourself, having your kid sign and say the word, and showing them the picture, written, and real life form of the word. Multiple connections for the win.
For an added level of competitiveness, split off into teams. Some kids can go with Mommy and some kids can go with Daddy. Whoever can find the most words on the list wins!
4. Go on a Little Blue Truck's Springtime "Drive"
Little Blue Truck is always going on an adventure throughout town and stopping to see his friends. With Little Blue Truck's Springtime, you can too.
Before going on your own cruise, read the book first. Little Blue Truck is a favorite in our house. The books teach sounds, rhymes, onamonapia, and repetition, and they have some beautiful illustrations.
After reading the book, step outside into Little Blue Truck's world and recreate the drive he went on in the story. Have your little one hop into his own mode of transportation: the stroller, Cozy Coupe, Power Wheels, or a tricycle.
Along the way, Blue sees Sheep, Duck, Goat, Cow, Pig, Bunny, and Hen. You, too, will place stuffed animals or pictures of these animals throughout your yard or neighborhood. As you go on your stroll, stop to collect the animals and talk about what sounds they make. Have them hop into your car with you.
End the drive back at the house for a Springtime Celebration with all the animals. Have spring snacks and talk about what you saw on your "drive" as a sequence of events activity.
Before going on your own cruise, read the book first. Little Blue Truck is a favorite in our house. The books teach sounds, rhymes, onamonapia, and repetition, and they have some beautiful illustrations.
After reading the book, step outside into Little Blue Truck's world and recreate the drive he went on in the story. Have your little one hop into his own mode of transportation: the stroller, Cozy Coupe, Power Wheels, or a tricycle.
Along the way, Blue sees Sheep, Duck, Goat, Cow, Pig, Bunny, and Hen. You, too, will place stuffed animals or pictures of these animals throughout your yard or neighborhood. As you go on your stroll, stop to collect the animals and talk about what sounds they make. Have them hop into your car with you.
End the drive back at the house for a Springtime Celebration with all the animals. Have spring snacks and talk about what you saw on your "drive" as a sequence of events activity.
5. Batter's Up with My First Book of Baseball
Spring brings baseball, and baseball is a favorite in our household, so to honor America's favorite past time what better way to slide into spring with a little baseball literacy.
Start off by reading My First Book of Baseball and talking about all things baseball. Then head to the diamond, real or makeshift, and hit a homerun with this fun activity. You can do it a number of ways.
Start off by reading My First Book of Baseball and talking about all things baseball. Then head to the diamond, real or makeshift, and hit a homerun with this fun activity. You can do it a number of ways.
- Simply hit and toss the ball around.
- If you want to add a literacy component to it, kids can try to earn runs by spelling or saying sight words or identifying the letters of the alphabet or the object in a picture.
I hope these books and activities bring joy and a breath of fresh air to a long winter. Let me know what ones you tried and if your kids liked them in the comments. For more activities, subscribe to my newsletter to get the latest info.
Lauren Barrett was born in New Jersey, grew up in West Virginia, went to college in Pennsylvania, and now lives and works in North Carolina. She is a high school teacher of the Deaf and hard-of-hearing by day, a cross country coach by the afternoon, a writer by her son's nap times, and a full time mom to an amazing toddler. She loves her faith, running, visiting MLB stadiums with her husband, chocolate, scrapbooking, pretending she would actually do well on the Amazing Race, re-watching The Office, listening to Bobby Bones, and helping out all moms. She lives in North Carolina with her husband, James, and son, Henry.
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After I had a year of letting go in 2019, I decided that 2020 was the year of putting myself out there.
I had written a children's book (more on that later) and was given some advise that I needed to join social media and be an active participant on it.
I had been dragging my feet with joining the photography platform. I don't have any photos to post. I'm not that interesting, I mused on more than one occasion.
But, I am so glad I succumbed to the peer pressure and joined the site. I have learned five major lessons in this year.
I had written a children's book (more on that later) and was given some advise that I needed to join social media and be an active participant on it.
I had been dragging my feet with joining the photography platform. I don't have any photos to post. I'm not that interesting, I mused on more than one occasion.
But, I am so glad I succumbed to the peer pressure and joined the site. I have learned five major lessons in this year.
1. Failing Is Inevitable But Often Opens Doors To New Avenues
I set out on this journey to publish a children's book. I have not done that yet. Of the upward of 40 + publishers I have sent my edited and reedited and reedited one more time manuscript to, I have heard back from three and they were a no.
I have not given up, and it looks as I will have to go the self-publishing route, but I am thankful for this failure.
Failing with the children's book has led me to discover that I really like blogging. After posting blogs on my own website, I tested the waters with guest blogging.
Some big name sites like Scary Mommy, BluntMoms, The Mighty, Motherwell Magazine, and Her View From Home accepted my work. Soon some of my work was getting thousands of shares, and I even started getting paid on a regular basis for some of work.
But what you don't see for every success is about ten failures. Some of my published articles got rejected five, six, seven times before they made it onto a site. Some never do.
An article I wrote in the spring finally just got accepted to be published after I sent it to an 11th different publisher. Failure isn't fun, but it is inevitable and very valuable.
After every failure, I have learned lessons to help me improve. As Bobby Bones says, "Fail until you don't." And when you are doing something you love, it's very hard to fail.
I set out on this journey to publish a children's book. I have not done that yet. Of the upward of 40 + publishers I have sent my edited and reedited and reedited one more time manuscript to, I have heard back from three and they were a no.
I have not given up, and it looks as I will have to go the self-publishing route, but I am thankful for this failure.
Failing with the children's book has led me to discover that I really like blogging. After posting blogs on my own website, I tested the waters with guest blogging.
Some big name sites like Scary Mommy, BluntMoms, The Mighty, Motherwell Magazine, and Her View From Home accepted my work. Soon some of my work was getting thousands of shares, and I even started getting paid on a regular basis for some of work.
But what you don't see for every success is about ten failures. Some of my published articles got rejected five, six, seven times before they made it onto a site. Some never do.
An article I wrote in the spring finally just got accepted to be published after I sent it to an 11th different publisher. Failure isn't fun, but it is inevitable and very valuable.
After every failure, I have learned lessons to help me improve. As Bobby Bones says, "Fail until you don't." And when you are doing something you love, it's very hard to fail.
2. I had no real idea how Instagram worked.
I am so glad I had no clue how Instagram worked or I would have never joined it. Here is what I was clueless about.
A. More Like Lauren Barrett Creeps
I need to come clean. I did, in fact, have Instagram before I had Instagram. After my husband, James, got tired of me borrowing his phone to stalk the members of the Bobby Bones Show, a radio/podcast show that I am obsessed with in a totally normal and healthy way, I made my own burner account if you will. I had no pictures, no information, and no posts. I only used it to creep on Bobby Bones, Radio Amy, Lunchbox, and Eddie.
But, then, people I knew kept popping up under the Suggested for You list, so I hypothetically started to click on them and potentially viewed their stories on perhaps more than one occasion. I had no idea that people can see who views their stories!
For the record, I don't look, but I was so embarrassed by my faceless lurking once I found out when I got Instagram.
B. No Links For You!
I also had no clue that you couldn't post links on Instagram. The date was October 24, and I finally decided it was time to make a post with a link to one of my blogs. The blog was about tips to de-stressing your life. I pressed post and waited.
My mom, a technology novice and social media newbie, texted me that she couldn't open my link to my blog post. Exasperated that once again my mom couldn't comprehend simple technology, I went to have a look for myself.
And much to my dismay, I couldn't click on the link nor could I copy and paste it. What!!
A quick Google search showed that you can't use links in an Instagram post. The phrase, "link in bio" suddenly made sense. What a fool I was! Such a posting plebeian.
I felt like that emoji with her palm in her face. I have learned from my amateur ways and now use the popular line to direct people to my blogs.
I have also learned that you can, though, post links in your Instagram Story if you have 10,000 followers. Only 9,500 to go!
C. Holy Filters!
I knew that Instagram was notorious for their filters and photo editing, but I was unprepared for the sheer amount of alteration you can do to one photo. Not only are there upwards of fifteen filters, all with their subtle differences, but there are ways in which you can change the saturation, tilt, contrast, brightness, structure, warmth, color, and fade, among other things that I have no clue what they are.
Literally, you can spend hours doctoring one photo to get it just right, and then when you go back to look at the original one it's like you have two entirely different pictures.
Talk about option overload and decision fatigue. If I do decide to go with a filter, I usually don't venture much farther past Juno before I throw in the towel and pick one.
Overall, I do like the editing abilities like adjusting the brightness because I am not really good at taking clear photos.
D. Damn Scams!
Lastly, I am a sucker for those FaceBook ads. They get me. That's how I discovered Lulus and Shein. I thought Instagram would be no different.
The beginning of fall was right when I joined Instagram, and you know what that means. Sweater Weather! As I was absentmindedly scrolling through my feed, the most adorable sweaters popped up. "Ohemgee," I shrieked, "I've literally got to have them." None of that was said, but for the effect of the story pretend that I did.
After discovering the super cute sweaters, I hemmed and hawed for a bit, even going as far as to ask the girls on the Cross Country team what they thought.
"Soo cute," they squealed (They didn't but you get the idea). My decision was made. I bought them. I anticipated their arrival. So many basic places I could wear them. To the pumpkin patch. To our Fall Mountain Getaway. A football tailgate. Frolicking in the leaves.
But after a month they still hadn't arrived, and every time I tried to track the package I was directed to a Chinese site. I had been scammed!
Eventually, they did arrive, but they looked nothing like the advertisement and the material was so shoddy that they didn't even bother to affix a tag to the inside. So I had been scammed and a lesson learned. Don't trust everything on Instagram.
P.S. The website is Flookmiki for any of you who might be duped like me.
I am so glad I had no clue how Instagram worked or I would have never joined it. Here is what I was clueless about.
A. More Like Lauren Barrett Creeps
I need to come clean. I did, in fact, have Instagram before I had Instagram. After my husband, James, got tired of me borrowing his phone to stalk the members of the Bobby Bones Show, a radio/podcast show that I am obsessed with in a totally normal and healthy way, I made my own burner account if you will. I had no pictures, no information, and no posts. I only used it to creep on Bobby Bones, Radio Amy, Lunchbox, and Eddie.
But, then, people I knew kept popping up under the Suggested for You list, so I hypothetically started to click on them and potentially viewed their stories on perhaps more than one occasion. I had no idea that people can see who views their stories!
For the record, I don't look, but I was so embarrassed by my faceless lurking once I found out when I got Instagram.
B. No Links For You!
I also had no clue that you couldn't post links on Instagram. The date was October 24, and I finally decided it was time to make a post with a link to one of my blogs. The blog was about tips to de-stressing your life. I pressed post and waited.
My mom, a technology novice and social media newbie, texted me that she couldn't open my link to my blog post. Exasperated that once again my mom couldn't comprehend simple technology, I went to have a look for myself.
And much to my dismay, I couldn't click on the link nor could I copy and paste it. What!!
A quick Google search showed that you can't use links in an Instagram post. The phrase, "link in bio" suddenly made sense. What a fool I was! Such a posting plebeian.
I felt like that emoji with her palm in her face. I have learned from my amateur ways and now use the popular line to direct people to my blogs.
I have also learned that you can, though, post links in your Instagram Story if you have 10,000 followers. Only 9,500 to go!
C. Holy Filters!
I knew that Instagram was notorious for their filters and photo editing, but I was unprepared for the sheer amount of alteration you can do to one photo. Not only are there upwards of fifteen filters, all with their subtle differences, but there are ways in which you can change the saturation, tilt, contrast, brightness, structure, warmth, color, and fade, among other things that I have no clue what they are.
Literally, you can spend hours doctoring one photo to get it just right, and then when you go back to look at the original one it's like you have two entirely different pictures.
Talk about option overload and decision fatigue. If I do decide to go with a filter, I usually don't venture much farther past Juno before I throw in the towel and pick one.
Overall, I do like the editing abilities like adjusting the brightness because I am not really good at taking clear photos.
D. Damn Scams!
Lastly, I am a sucker for those FaceBook ads. They get me. That's how I discovered Lulus and Shein. I thought Instagram would be no different.
The beginning of fall was right when I joined Instagram, and you know what that means. Sweater Weather! As I was absentmindedly scrolling through my feed, the most adorable sweaters popped up. "Ohemgee," I shrieked, "I've literally got to have them." None of that was said, but for the effect of the story pretend that I did.
After discovering the super cute sweaters, I hemmed and hawed for a bit, even going as far as to ask the girls on the Cross Country team what they thought.
"Soo cute," they squealed (They didn't but you get the idea). My decision was made. I bought them. I anticipated their arrival. So many basic places I could wear them. To the pumpkin patch. To our Fall Mountain Getaway. A football tailgate. Frolicking in the leaves.
But after a month they still hadn't arrived, and every time I tried to track the package I was directed to a Chinese site. I had been scammed!
Eventually, they did arrive, but they looked nothing like the advertisement and the material was so shoddy that they didn't even bother to affix a tag to the inside. So I had been scammed and a lesson learned. Don't trust everything on Instagram.
P.S. The website is Flookmiki for any of you who might be duped like me.
3. Social media and blogging can be tiring
As much as I love blogging and social media, it can be very tiring and mentally draining. I've learned that I have to take breaks.
There is so much more to blogging that's behind the scenes. I've had to learn about SEOs, keywords, tags, affiliate links, analytics, subscriber links, opt-ins, call-to-actions, guest posts, and other very boring but important words to making a blog and website grow.
I have had to set myself up with my guidelines and rules. I only get on social media three times a week.
I abstain from it all other days. I shut off my laptop and phone an hour before bed, and I don't get on my phone at dinner.
These breaks are a necessary time to regroup and clear my mind from all the noise on social media that can sometimes be overwhelming.
As much as I love blogging and social media, it can be very tiring and mentally draining. I've learned that I have to take breaks.
There is so much more to blogging that's behind the scenes. I've had to learn about SEOs, keywords, tags, affiliate links, analytics, subscriber links, opt-ins, call-to-actions, guest posts, and other very boring but important words to making a blog and website grow.
I have had to set myself up with my guidelines and rules. I only get on social media three times a week.
I abstain from it all other days. I shut off my laptop and phone an hour before bed, and I don't get on my phone at dinner.
These breaks are a necessary time to regroup and clear my mind from all the noise on social media that can sometimes be overwhelming.
4. I had to stop caring what people think
When you decide to put yourself out there as is the case with blogging, you have to stop caring what people think about every little thing. I've had to stop caring about all the unwritten rules of Instagram like how often you should post, what kind of filters to use, how many hashtags to throw out there, how many followers and likes one should have, and if my son or I are wearing the same outfit twice.
If I started to care about all those trivial details, I would start to get into my head and second guess what I write and post.
Sure, doubt creeps into my mind every now and then right before I hit the post button.
Sometimes, I almost convince myself to play it safe and be comfortable and just skip a week.
But, I set a goal to post every week, and I was going to honor that goal. I couldn't let hypotheticals of what people might think stand in my way of what I love.
When you decide to put yourself out there as is the case with blogging, you have to stop caring what people think about every little thing. I've had to stop caring about all the unwritten rules of Instagram like how often you should post, what kind of filters to use, how many hashtags to throw out there, how many followers and likes one should have, and if my son or I are wearing the same outfit twice.
If I started to care about all those trivial details, I would start to get into my head and second guess what I write and post.
Sure, doubt creeps into my mind every now and then right before I hit the post button.
Sometimes, I almost convince myself to play it safe and be comfortable and just skip a week.
But, I set a goal to post every week, and I was going to honor that goal. I couldn't let hypotheticals of what people might think stand in my way of what I love.
5. Women are very talented
If Instagram has taught me anything, it's that I am amazed at the talented, positive women (and men) out there.
It's full of women showcasing their talents. I see women starting business. I see women writing and blogging and sewing and designing and traveling. I witness women being great moms and wives and friends and daughters and aunts. I've looked at posts in admiration of women taking beautiful photos of their children and planning cute, carefully crafted themed birthday parties for their children.
I've viewed stories of women decorating and making over their homes. I've liked posts of women selling products, modeling clothes, demonstrating a workout routine, and making food.
I've been in awe at the women standing up for what they believe in and pouring their heart and soul into their causes. Instagram is so uplifting!
Sure, social media is often a "best of" or highlight reel and if you dive deep enough, you probably will find a dark abyss of a lot of negativity and fakeness.
But the Bible says, "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."
Women shouldn't let anyone stop them from sharing their talents with the world.
I'll never be the type of mom who can take those cute photos of their child with all the props and signs nor will I ever throw a Pinterest party.
I'll never have the skills to design a room or refurbish a piece of furniture nor will I ever make a gourmet style meal, but I can appreciate those women who can.
When you stop comparing yourself to everyone and instead root for all those women out there, Instagram is a inspiring, beautiful place full of people just doing what they love. Isn't that what we all want?
If Instagram has taught me anything, it's that I am amazed at the talented, positive women (and men) out there.
It's full of women showcasing their talents. I see women starting business. I see women writing and blogging and sewing and designing and traveling. I witness women being great moms and wives and friends and daughters and aunts. I've looked at posts in admiration of women taking beautiful photos of their children and planning cute, carefully crafted themed birthday parties for their children.
I've viewed stories of women decorating and making over their homes. I've liked posts of women selling products, modeling clothes, demonstrating a workout routine, and making food.
I've been in awe at the women standing up for what they believe in and pouring their heart and soul into their causes. Instagram is so uplifting!
Sure, social media is often a "best of" or highlight reel and if you dive deep enough, you probably will find a dark abyss of a lot of negativity and fakeness.
But the Bible says, "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."
Women shouldn't let anyone stop them from sharing their talents with the world.
I'll never be the type of mom who can take those cute photos of their child with all the props and signs nor will I ever throw a Pinterest party.
I'll never have the skills to design a room or refurbish a piece of furniture nor will I ever make a gourmet style meal, but I can appreciate those women who can.
When you stop comparing yourself to everyone and instead root for all those women out there, Instagram is a inspiring, beautiful place full of people just doing what they love. Isn't that what we all want?
Thanks for following me on my year-long journey of posting a blog a week.
I will still continue to do so for the time-being, but in the year to come I would like to expand a bit by posting more videos and building an email list for a monthly newsletter and then just maybe I will take a break.
I will still continue to do so for the time-being, but in the year to come I would like to expand a bit by posting more videos and building an email list for a monthly newsletter and then just maybe I will take a break.
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My name is Lauren Barrett, and I was born in New Jersey, grew up in West Virginia, went to college in Pennsylvania, and now live and work in North Carolina. I'm a high school teacher of the deaf and hard-of-hearing by day, a cross country coach by the afternoon, a writer by night, and a full time mom to an amazing toddler. I love my faith, running, watching baseball, chocolate, scrapbooking, pretending I would actually do well on the Amazing Race, re-watching The Office, listening to Bobby Bones, and helping out all moms.
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How to Publish a Blog
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Step 1: Research a website you like and find out the kind of blogs they publish. Read. Read. Read.
Step 2: Read their editorial guidelines and submission rules carefully.
Step 3: Write something you are passionate about.
Step 4: Aim for 500-800 words. That is the sweet spot.
Step 5: Proofread and edit. Take out any unnecessary words.
Step 6: Add pictures and graphics where necessary.
Step 7: Submit!
Lauren Barrett was born in New Jersey, grew up in West Virginia, went to college in Pennsylvania, and now lives and works in North Carolina. She is a high school teacher of the Deaf and hard-of-hearing by day, a cross country coach by the afternoon, a writer by her son's naptimes, and a full time mom to an amazing toddler. She loves her faith, running, visiting MLB stadiums with her husband, chocolate, scrapbooking, pretending she would actually do well on the Amazing Race, re-watching The Office, listening to Bobby Bones, and helping out all moms. She lives in North Carolina with her husband, James, and son, Henry.
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